The Journal

Questions about love, answered.

Straight answers to the things people actually ask about dating, compatibility, and finding the person who fits you. Written by the team building OtherHalf.

The big question

Do opposites really attract?

The oldest question in dating, taken seriously. What people usually mean when they ask it, where sameness helps, and why we built a whole app on the answer.

N° 01 · 4 min read Read the answer →
First dates

What are good first date questions?

Openers that start real conversations, the ones that stall them, and a short list you can actually remember.

N° 02 · 4 min Read →
Compatibility

How do you know you've met your other half?

The difference between comfort and complement, and the signs that someone fits the shape of you.

N° 03 · 4 min Read →
Relationships

Is it normal to argue in a happy relationship?

Why friction shows up in good pairs, and how to tell a healthy disagreement from a warning sign.

N° 04 · 4 min Read →
Online dating

How long should you talk before meeting?

The window between matching and meeting, why it closes faster than you think, and how to use it well.

N° 05 · 4 min Read →
Long distance

Can long distance actually work?

What distance changes, what it does not, and the small habits that carry a pair across it.

N° 06 · 5 min Read →
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